Want to keep the man of your dreams in your life and save the realtionship? Better learn how to please him in bed. Great tips on oral sex.

2009-09-23T08:29:00.001-07:00

It's no secret that the way to truly please a man in bed is to perform fellatio on him. There's nothing that men enjoy, physically and emotionally as having oral sex. It simply drives them wild.

However, there is doing it good and doing it fantastic. Your man will know the difference especially if he had some experience with other partners in the past.

Here are some ideas and tips to make sure that your man will not be able to get you out of his mind for weeks, not just days.

Show initiative!

Make the first move and he'll be like putty in your hands.

Whip out a pair of fur-lined handcuffs, or velvet ropes and tell him you just don’t think he’s really going to relax and enjoy himself unless he totally submits to your attention.

Put on a show, do a little striptease before beginning to go down on him but leave some clothes on to create mystique and sex tension.

Take a little break and have him pleasure you for a minute or two. Your sighs and moans as you sit on his face will definitely give him a thrill.

Use plenty of water-based lubricant on your hands (flavored if possible), and his penis and balls, to make things slide and glide.

Tips:

- Sounding like you're enjoying yourself with humming sounds will not only boost his ego but increase his pleasure as your mouth vibrates on him.

- One trick which works with great success is to introduce warm drinks into your oral play. This could get messy but having a bit of warm tea in your mouth when his manhood penetrates your lips can give him an extra-heated experience - but do make sure that it is not too hot! Alternatively, a fizzy champagne can send tingles up his spine in no time.

- As you suck, don't forget to use your tongue for added sensation.

- Create a vacuum with your mouth around him. This is something that can only be done orally and many women don't think about. Not only will this drive him wild but will make you one of his better, if not his best lover to date

- Place the head of his penis inside your mouth, but do not tighten your lips around the shaft. With the tip of your tongue, begin a circle motion around his head. The head of his penis will slide to different places in your mouth as you continue the circle motion.

- The most sensitive spot on his entire body. It’s the point where the foreskin of his penis is attached (if he’s not circumcised of course), just below the head of the penis. Spend time caressing it and those areas immediately surrounding it.

I hope this will help you add some variety into your relationship and help you keep the man you really like.

BUT! If you are like me and want to become really good at pleasing your man you should get more detailed instructions. I suggest you get yourself a book from some recognized sexologist. There are many out there, the one I found interesting and have bought is located here. I was a bit skeptical about this internet stuff at first, but it payed of. There's a bunch of techniques you can do and especially WHAT YOU SHOULD NOT DO inside. It pushed the sex life of me and my husband on an upper level and it actually affected our whole relationship in a very positive way.

I strongly recomend you check out the book and BUY IT, it's one of the best out there on this topic and will improve your sex drastically, it helped me and I still take a quick look in it when needed.

THE BOOK THAT WILL MAKE HIM BEG FOR MORE

"You don't know if your man is enjoying you giving him head? Then he probably doesn't ..."

Wish you the best, Carmen, relationship counsler

Oral sex tips for women

Want to keep the man of your dreams in your life and save the realtionship? Better learn how to please him in bed. Great tips on oral sex.